Our ideal vs their ideal; our problem vs their problem

For Agile / Scrum / Kanban advocates, questions about Waterfall vs Agile, Scrum vs Kanban might seem quite important and essential.

Just remember that most people don't actually care.

What we consider problems worthy of blog posts, multiple tweets, and e-mail flame wars are actually quite unlikely to be problems that most other people consider worthy of even thinking about.

If you want to help people, remember that your ideal is not their ideal and your problems are not their problems.

Instead... try understanding what their ideal is and therefore what their problems are.